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Writer's pictureDanyelle Bridges

Embracing Your Inherent Value In Our Fast-Paced World




It’s easy to get caught up in superficial appearances and judge based on what meets the eye. However, it's crucial to remember that true value often lies beneath the surface. 


Consider the story of a boy and his father on a camping trip. 

The boy’s father saw a folded cardboard box covered with dirt and rocks. The boy asked his father why did he pick the box up. So his dad smiled and said because we may need it. As they continued their journey, it started to rain. They stopped and set up the tent to avoid getting drenched in the rain. After they got settled in the tent, the rain got heavy and ripped a hole in the tent. His father took the old dirty box and placed it over the hole. What the son didn’t realize, was that the dirt made the cardboard hard over time because it acted as cement plaster and the rocks allowed the water to roll off the board so it wouldn’t settle and create soft spots. 


At face value, a folded cardboard box covered in dirt and rocks may seem insignificant. However, the father saw potential in it and chose to keep it. When it started to rain and the tent ripped, the seemingly ordinary cardboard box proved to be a hard protective survival piece, serving as a makeshift patch. In the same way, we often underestimate our own value. Society may perceive us as timid, tired, incompetent, or unqualified, but beneath the surface, we are anointed, strong, and chosen for a purpose. It's crucial to embrace our true value and recognize that who we are runs deeper than superficial appearances. 


Rediscover Your Worth

Challenge Yourself: This month, commit to rediscovering your intrinsic value. Peel back the superficial layers and uncover the core of who you are – resilient, purposeful, and uniquely gifted. Celebrate your true worth and encourage others to do the same. Remember, your value transcends appearances and you’ve faced challenges and hardships, yet you have not only survived them but now thrive. Your value is not determined by what you see but it's a reflection of your resilience and unwavering strength. It's essential to appreciate that you don’t resemble what you’ve been through. Your experiences and struggles have shaped you, but they don’t define you. Instead of measuring your worth based on the opinions of others, focus on recognizing your own intrinsic value and be grateful for the strength that has brought you through every obstacle. In a world often fixated on surface appearances, it's easy to overlook the profound depth of our true value. Just like the cardboard box that proved its worth in protecting and sheltering, we too possess hidden strengths and resilience beyond our imagination.


Overcoming Limiting Beliefs

It's all too common to fall into the trap of settling for mediocrity or allowing limited perceptions to define our worth. But it's time to break free from these constraints and embrace a new perspective. 


Shifting Your Outlook

  1. Take Ownership: Seize control of your narrative and empower yourself to steer your life in the direction of growth and fulfillment.

  2. Personal Growth: Invest in yourself fearlessly. Engage in self-improvement efforts that nurture your mind, body, and spirit.

  3. Reframe Your Self-Image: Challenge negative self-perceptions and strive to see yourself through a lens of strength, capability, and boundless potential.

  4. Live Authentically: Let your actions reflect the depths of your true value. Live with purpose, authenticity, and unwavering belief in your worth.


  1. Embrace Your Journey: Your past struggles do not define you; they have sculpted you into a survivor. Acknowledge your resilience and embrace the journey towards thriving in all aspects of life.


As you embark on this journey of self-discovery and empowerment, remember that your true value transcends fleeting appearances or external judgments. You are a masterpiece of resilience, courage, and untapped potential waiting to be unleashed.


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